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when do you usually start disliking/hating someone? 

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1,059 deviants said i only truly hate/dislike someone if they have specifically hurt me/my feelings
16%
219 deviants said i dont need to know them, i look at them and immediately dislike their presence
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51 deviants said even if they had the best personality ever, i dislike them because my friends dislike them too

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Pipcripps Featured By Owner Apr 8, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I don't hate people unless they hurt people close to me. I don't care what people say about me, I won't hate anyone for having an opinion or speaking freely.
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epiphxny Featured By Owner Apr 5, 2017
honestly idk it depends lol. i usually hate people (usually artists) if all they do is headbop animation memes 
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Szarenkka Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I don't tend to hate people at all. I believe everyone has some form of goodness in them, always. No one is born evil. However, i can start to be disappointed in someone or dislike them if they are close-minded, arrogant, ignorant or obnoxious. 
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PhoenixFeather2002 Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I never hate anyone. I can be annoyed by one's presence or how they talk back to me, but hey, humanity is dumb. I expect some of us to be complete idiots unaware of anything important in our lives and instead spend all of our time focusing on how we look and whatnot. And I hate to say this, it's not my mission to change them. If they fail life, it's no one's but their own.
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skailak Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017
i only hhate myself tbh ive never hated anyone,, i have this idea stuck on my head that i have to avoid judgements so i stay as rational as possible and when i start to dislike someone for some reason i dont understand, i try to justify their actions by imagining the situation theyre living and idk, that way i keep myself frqom hating people because hating only makws me be disrjrbed,,,

tbh im not very proud of this im easily manipulated bdcause i never get mad and i get hurt a lot ?? because all i try to do is understand this person instead of getting super mad and i cant make myself confront tjem so i just keep swallowing shit until i die lr

idk im

i dont like the way i am as i said before hhheh i wish i could dislike people or just be able to exprwss my disagreement or madness im sorry this is terrible written ? i love you anyway im anxious whatwver
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SavannahSmiless Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Both first and last irl. Its the typical b*tch types i can recognize.
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Tea-Lova Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I actually really struggle to hate people anymore, I feel like people who are assholes always have a reason for their assholisum, and I can never end up disliking them. 
This probably stems from two major events in my life.
The first one is about me and two other girls, we'll call them SS & E 
E was my best friend for so long, until we drifted apart for some unknown reason? We became friends again when we were put in each other's class, until I found out that E had a super rude and bitchy friend called SS who hated my guts? She bullied me (verbally & physically) for a few years, but eventually ended up moving schools because of home issues. I actually found her YT channel and started talking to her, and were now good friends (also yes- she does know who I am IRL)

I also had much more issues with a girl, SB, Who verbally and physically bullied me for over six years, but she moved schools, got bullied and moved into my current highschool. She's matured so much, and were really close friends now.
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spoopyspaniel Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
There's this one girl at my school, and tbh she's just really rude. She's never done anything to me, but like, she told my girlfriend to give up on life because she wasn't worth it? And claims she said that because she was 'annoying her'. idk, I just dislike her in general.
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MojoCat96 Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I hate to hate people it's a horrible feeling
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swagdoggos Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017
im very intuition-orientated so if someone gives off a very bad vibe, i'll start to dislike them. and im generally right when it comes to these things rip 
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Hannvi Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I usually don't hate people unless they are annoying or mean.
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spiritphone Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i usually dont hate people unless i find them to  be immensely annoying or have dome certain things 2 make me hate them (just smth scummy over all)

that or they fucking dab
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FawnofLove Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
what a coincidence, i just started disliking one of my "friends" for saying "i'm making one" on my youtube video that i worked hard on for three hours straight, and when i said she's not supposed to, she said "does it look like i care?"
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cloudymalachite Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i normally start disliking someone from a vibe i get, and if the vibe doesn't go away i try to avoid them lol i'm very intuition- oriented rip my ass
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BramCracker Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I dont hate unless I get a good reason, but i dont need a good reson to dislike someone xD
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sbooky Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017
i try to not hate anyone but if someone is trying so hard to get my hate..well,they success
i only hated 2 people in my life and they're cousins (we're not relatives,they're relatives of each other)
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Gloryraiin Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Student General Artist
by their actions or attitude 
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Tiny-Forest-Prince Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
ok so to me this is very specfic

i have different levels of disliking and hating somebody. 

it mostly goes like this: 

annoyed by, dislike, severely dislike, hate, REALLY HATE, 

annoyed by means i'll tolerate them but usually stay away from. idont need to know somebody. dislike is when i'll block someone or refuse to be around someone. also dont need to know much about them (say if all i know is that they're transphobic or something. me, a trans person, will dislike and stay away or block). 

when it gets to severely dislike I am ready to be a bit rude to them. I usually have to know them or they have to hurt a friend of mine. 

hate is when I despise their existence and will avoid them at all costs. I usually know them and they deeply hurt me and I will slander their damn name. 

REALLY HATE is when i straight up wish somebody dead. I only "really hate" 2 people. and they deserve it. 
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grumpmutt Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist
THIS
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Turquoise-Comet Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017   Digital Artist
Hmm, that's a good question. I suppose it's a mix of all three, I can look at someone and instantly judge them and know that is someone I won't get along with, if I know more about them and anything about them rubs me the wrong way then I won't think very highly of them, and if I've ever had contact with the person and they left a negative impression on me then I can hate them from that. I think most commonly its the second one though, since I'm not always running around meeting new faces and such and I also try to avoid the whole "don't judge a book by its cover" sort of thing. :shrug:
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Japanblossom Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i guess there are some people i dislike by association??
like the "popular" group in my school; if i see someone who hangs out with them and stuff i automatically feel a disliking toward them
sometimes i dislike people bc of what they did/said to my friends, but i try to avoid petty hatred/dislike toward people just because of one thing they did/said ^^
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10pills Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i agree strongly w/ this....
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nymqq Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
sam e !!
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Not unless they give me a good reason to dislike them.
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OWO-Whatz-This Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017
tbh all 3,

sometimes I can just tell when im not going to like them, its like.. a 6th sense I guess?? I wouldnt do anything bad to them but rather just avoid them i guess?
and sometimes if my friends dont like them, they usually have a good reason not to, but most of the time i try to stay away from that.
And if they hurt me, I dislike them for that. :V simple as that lol
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Hexitics Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Student General Artist
Lol none of those options?
I will dislike/hate someone if there is a justified REASON to hate/dislike them. If my friend dislikes them because oh, they're just, horrible and they stole my wallet ONCE like ten years ago! No I'm fine unless I know that they STILL do that kind of stuff.
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nymqq Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
gHGHH i only hate people that i know that have done shit to someone / me / my friends
or people that is just annoying
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DigbyTheGoat Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Student Filmographer
I don't hate anyone unless they make goddamn memes.
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Linniden Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Artist
nico nico niiiiiii
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DigbyTheGoat Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Student Filmographer
What
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Autumns-Dusk Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
</3
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:icondigbythegoat:
DigbyTheGoat Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2017  Student Filmographer
Sorry couldn't hear you
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